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May 19, 2008

Our Thinking vs. God's Promises

An unknown author has made a list which they called, "Our Thinking vs. God's Promises." Several people have asked me for this list. Here it is.

  • We think: "It's impossible"
  • God says: All things are possible (Luke 18:27)

     

  • We think: "I'm too tired"
  • God says: I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30)

     

  • We think: "Nobody really loves me"
  • God says: I love you (John 3:16 & John 13:34)

     

  • We think: "I can't go on"
  • God says: My grace is sufficient (II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)

     

  • We think: "I can't figure things out"
  • God says: I will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6)

     

  • We think: "I can't do it"
  • God says: You can do all things (Philippians 4:13)

     

  • We think: "I'm not able"
  • God says: I am able (II Corinthians 9:8)

     

  • We think: "It's not worth it"
  • God says: It will be worth it (Romans 8:28)

     

  • We think: "I can't forgive myself"
  • God says: I forgive you (I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)

     

  • We think: "I can't manage"
  • God says: I will supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19)

     

  • We think: "I'm afraid"
  • God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear (II Timothy 1:7)

     

  • We think: "I'm always worried and frustrated"
  • God says: Cast all your cares on Me (I Peter 5:7)

     

  • We think: "I don't have enough faith"
  • God says: I've given everyone a measure of faith (Romans 12:3)

     

  • We think: "I'm not smart enough"
  • God says: I give you wisdom (I Corinthians 1:30)

     

  • We think: "I feel all alone"
  • God says: I will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5)

May 07, 2008

Yang Hui Ling

A little over a week ago I had an experience that I call a "God moment." When Bev and I got on the plane in Beijing to come home, I had an aisle seat and Bev had a window seat. A Chinese man came and sat between us and his wife was in the row in front of us. I traded seats with the man and now he was sitting in the aisle seat. He traded with a young Chinese lady in the row in front of us, and now she sat in our row in the aisle set. He was now setting with his wife. Wow. There was a lot of trading seats going on that day. We started settling in for the long flight home through Chicago.

Several years ago the Chinese government mandated that all Chinese students beginning in the fourth grade learn English. China is now the largest English speaking country in the world. This lady sitting with us in the aisle seat could speak marginal English and we started getting acquainted. She told us that she was flying to Miami, Florida to start work on a cruise ship called the Majesty of the Seas as a waitress. It was a six month contract and they had purchased her plane ticket for the trip. She in turn would pay the cruise line back from her earnings as a waitress for the ticket. Her hope was to earn enough money to buy her parents a home in her hometown. She had never been out of the country and had only been to Beijing once before. She knew no one in the US. The US would only give her a three day visa to make the trip through the US to Miami and onto the ship. Once on the ship she was pretty much confined to that ship without a travel visa.

Needless to say, Bev and I were greatly concerned for this young ladies wellbeing. We both have heard horror stories about cruise ships. We know some people who have worked on cruise ships that have had awful experiences. The thought that came to my mind was one of "indentured servitude." We traded email addresses and phone numbers. We told Ling that she could call or write us any time if she needed help. She asked Bev why we would care so much about her. We told her that we have two daughters. Both of our daughters have lived outside of the US and we know what it feels like to have a loved one so far away.

I guess that my contact with Ling and knowing her story was very unsettling for me. About a week ago, and I don't know if this happened in a dream or what, but I vaguely remember praying for Ling in the middle of the night. I remember asking God to protect her and keep her safe. For several days after we got home, I struggled with that horrible thing called "jet lag." That is a condition were you feel like sleeping during the day and you can't sleep at night. You lay in bed tossing and turning until you get up. Someone recently told me that it takes a day to recover for every time zone that you cross. We crossed 13 time zones!

It was a Sunday night or I guess early Monday morning. I had several meetings the next day and during a Monday luncheon meeting I get a call on my cell phone. It was Ling. She called to tell me that she was OK. She said that the work was hard and long but she was OK. In that moment and I can't fully explain it, I felt the Holy Spirit. I told the story to the person I was having lunch with and he sat there with a stunned look on his face. We both knew that what I had just experienced was a "God moment." There is a line from an old William Cowper hymn that says, "God moves in a mysterious way, his wonders to perform." Praise God He does!

April 27, 2008

Birthday Boy

A year ago this time we were scrambling. One year ago tomorrow is Asher's birthday. That is the day I became "Pops" and Bev became "Bebe." Now you know when Asher begins to talk those names may change. But for now it is Pops and Bebe. Kali and Scott are expecting again and we are going to be grandparents of another baby boy in September! PTL! Wow. Maybe one of these days they will move from Charleston back to Oklahoma and we can really spoil them. Whether they move or not, he is a blessing.

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April 20, 2008

Hong Kong Women’s Walk to Emmaus #40

Here are the participants of the Women's Walk to Emmaus.

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April 17, 2008

Be In Prayer

We started the Hong Kong Women's Walk to Emmaus #40 last night. Things are going well. When I got up this morning Jana had emailed me that Randy Hart was not doing well and that this might be the final hours of his life here on earth. Randy is a man of God and we will be with him again. Be in prayer for the womens walk and for Randy. Prayer for Randy's family and for God's mercy. Thank you New Covenant for your commitment to prayer. In Christ, AC

April 13, 2008

Hong Kong Men’s Walk to Emmaus #39

I thought you might like to see the pilgrims and teams members of this men's Walk to Emmaus in Hong Kong.

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April 12, 2008

Lamma Island Fish Market

Here are a few pictures from the trip to Lamma Island. There were about fifteen of the Emmaus team who made the trip including Richard and Carolann Whetsell.

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April 11, 2008

A Surprise of Joy

In 1975 there was a Catholic priest named Fr. Tom Hensler who invited 3 Methodist clergy to attend a Catholic Cursillo in Peoria, Ill. Out of that invitation has emerged the Methodist Walk to Emmaus. Fr. Tom was on the first walk that I was involved with in HK and he was on the same flight from Chicago to Hong Kong. He is a blessed man full of the presence of Jesus Christ. It was a real joy and surprise being able to spend some of that time with Fr. Tom.

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China Bound

Life is full of adventure! I had to be at the airport at 5:30 AM Monday for the trip to Hong Kong. I flew from OKC to Chicago. The flight from Chicago is a direct flight to Hong Kong via a route North over Alaska and then over Japan and down along the China coast to HK. It's about a 15 hour trip and we were schedule to land in HK at 4:45 PM on Tuesday. As we were passing by Beijing we lost an engine on the Boeing 747 and had to make an unscheduled landing at the Beijing airport. I want to think that this was more of an inconvenience than a real disastrous situation. The pilot said that the landing was a precautionary move. At any rate I didn't get to bed until 2:00 AM Wednesday morning.

Wednesday seems a blur. When we are in HK we stay with some old friends, the Morrison family. They were our host family on our first trip to HK several years ago. Many of you remember Andy and Katherine Morrison. Andy worked on the NC staff as an intern for about a year and a half. I had lunch with Andy's dad, Ken, and then Wednesday afternoon work on getting ready for the Men's Walk to Emmaus. Wednesday evening we had a junk (boat) trip through the HK harbor to Lamma Island for a seafood dinner with the Men's Emmaus team. Thursday we started the walk.

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February 03, 2008

The Bridge

This is the bridge illustration that when the Holy Spirit prompts you, you could share with a friend who is interested in coming to faith in Christ.

You have to establish the reality of two beings: people and God. Between people and God is a great chasm—a division that exists because of people's tendency to rebel against God's way and go their own way instead. These are the mistakes we make in life. The Bible calls this "sin."

The dilemma people face is that we want to get to God but know we can't just leap over the chasm. So we try exerting human effort, hoping we can get the bridge built. In the end, we realize that all the human effort in the world will never be enough to get us to the other side.

But thankfully, God sympathized with our dilemma. And because he loved us so much, he intervened so that we would have a means of getting close to him. His solution was to choose his Son, Jesus, to serve as the bridge.

If you remember nothing else about the bridge illustration, remember this: Christ came to earth to be our bridge, and whoever makes the decision to cross the bridge will live with God forever. The apostle John put it this way in John 5:24, "I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life" (NIV).